UK swingers clubs directory

Afterdark Edinburgh

Edinburgh · Scotland

Private members' swinging and kink club in the Sighthill/Bankhead area of west Edinburgh, established in 2022. Evenings combine a social lounge with dedicated play spaces, and the club runs a regular calendar of themed and social nights. Every first-time visitor gets a staff-led tour that covers the house rules.

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atlantisEVOLUTION

Stoke-on-Trent · West Midlands

A private members' swingers club in Burslem, Stoke-on-Trent, that describes itself as a nightclub-style adult venue with music and themed DJ events. It has operated for around 16 years and runs regular weekend club nights plus themed and fetish events. It is a 'dry' club, so it does not have wet facilities and does not issue towels.

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Carberrys

Great Yarmouth · East of England

Carberrys is a private kink party venue and B&B in a former seafront hotel opposite the Venetian Waterways in Great Yarmouth. It hosts themed daytime and evening events for different communities, including swingers, BDSM, trans and cross-dresser socials and men-only nights. The rooms can also be hired privately.

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Chameleons Darlaston

Darlaston · West Midlands

A sauna-based swingers club in Darlaston, near Junction 9 of the M6. It is spread over three floors with wet facilities, play rooms and a roof terrace, and has a sister club in Newport, South Wales. It opens six days a week and holds bi nights and themed events.

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Chunkymuffins Swingers Club

Frampton · East Midlands

Swingers club in a converted warehouse in rural Frampton, near Boston in the Lincolnshire Fens. It began as a private party club in 2010 and in July 2026 received planning permission to expand into a first floor and an outdoor pool area. It opens on Friday and Saturday nights with a monthly programme of themed events.

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Club Alchemy

Northwich · North West

Large purpose-built adult lifestyle club in Northwich, Cheshire, that runs ticketed themed events, mostly on Saturday afternoons and evenings. The venue covers two floors and has a big wet-spa area alongside a bar, terrace and an extensive first-floor play area.

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Club AntiChrist

London · London

Club AntiChrist is a long-running alternative club night held about once a quarter at Scala in King's Cross. It has several dancefloors playing goth, post-punk, industrial, metal and 80s music, plus live shows in the theatre space. There is also a supervised dungeon and a separate playroom for adults who want them. Guests must follow a strict alternative or fetish dress code.

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Club Bacchus

Dundee · Scotland

Adult lifestyle venue on Princes Street, east of Dundee city centre, running swingers nights, kink/BDSM events, trans and CD & admirer evenings and other themed nights. During the day it operates as a sauna, with some sessions mixed and some men-only. The premises were previously known on Dundee's gay scene as the No.11 sauna.

Club F

Stanley · North East

Private members' swingers club in Stanley, County Durham, about six miles from junction 63 of the A1(M). It opens on Friday and Saturday evenings and also runs regular Thursday events, including bi parties and the monthly 'ClubF T-Birds' night. Overnight hotel rooms on the top floor, or a cheaper 'crash' option, are available.

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Club Ignite

West Drayton · London

Club Ignite is a 21+ private members' club on Bath Road near Heathrow Terminal 5. During the day it runs as a naturist spa, and on Friday and Saturday nights it hosts lifestyle parties. Membership is needed before you visit, and the club publishes detailed rules on consent and hygiene.

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Club Play

Blackpool · North West

Long-running private members' swingers club in central Blackpool, reached by a discreet alleyway entrance off Ribble Road behind Central Drive. It runs themed weekend club nights and has a heated pool and wet area, sauna, cinema and around 19 playrooms.

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Club Utopia

Chudleigh · South West

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Club Utopia is a ticketed swingers and kink club in rural premises near Chudleigh, between Exeter and Newton Abbot, just off the A38. It began in 2020 under the name 'Bikers and Babes' near Yelverton before moving to its current venue, and runs themed swing and kink nights rather than opening every week. In July 2026 it also ran a private camping weekend in Cornwall called 'The Resurrection'.

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Cupids

Swinton · North West

Established adult lifestyle club in Swinton, Salford, a few miles from Manchester city centre, which says it has been running for more than 30 years. It opens seven nights a week, plus daytime sessions, and centres on a licensed UV bar and dance floor, with themed playrooms and a dungeon.

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Curious Club

Barwell · East Midlands

A private members' lifestyle club and licensed social bar for adults over 21. It moved to new premises in Barwell, Leicestershire, in February 2026, having previously been associated with Nuneaton. Membership is by application with ID checks, and the club describes itself as inclusive of all genders, orientations and identities.

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Decadance

Rochdale · North West

Smaller, female-run swingers club in a converted former pub in Rochdale, spread over three floors and with no external signage. It is a licensed bar rather than a members' club, so no membership or booking is needed, and it puts a strong emphasis on consent and welcoming first-time visitors.

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House of Poitier

Sutton · London

House of Poitier is an adult party venue in a large period house on a residential road in Sutton, run by its host Lady P since 2009. It hosts its own themed events and is also hired out to independent organisers. Events include swingers, fetish/BDSM, TV, bi and social nights, held during the day and in the evening.

HU9 Club

Hull · Yorkshire

Hull's members-only swingers club, on Witham at the junction with Great Union Street, just east of the city centre across the River Hull. The owner says it has been open for about ten years. Its interior has a 'shabby chic mansion' style, and the club runs a monthly fetish night.

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Infusion

Blackpool · North West

Purpose-built private members' lifestyle club in Blackpool town centre, open since 2005. The ground floor has a heated indoor pool, hot tub and sauna with social areas, and the upstairs dress-down floor has themed playrooms and a dungeon.

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Jaydees

Little Staughton · East of England

Jaydees is a members-only lifestyle club in a converted farm building at Berrywoods, near Little Staughton on the Bedfordshire and Cambridgeshire border. Its main feature is a 30-seater hot tub. It runs themed party nights at weekends and naturist spa days on Thursdays.

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Le Boudoir Club

London · London

Le Boudoir is a 21+ members-only ENM and lifestyle club in a permanent three-floor venue in central London, near Tower Bridge and Aldgate. You have to register online before attending (there is no fee), and the exact address is only sent in the ticket confirmation email. It runs weekly Friday and Saturday parties, plus some Thursday events.

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Liberty Elite

Lutterworth · East Midlands

A private members' club near Lutterworth that has run since 1999. It hosts swingers nights and separate fetish events in a purpose-designed venue set in about two acres beside the A5. The venue is licensed for over 300 people, has parking for more than 100 cars, and offers on-site en-suite rooms.

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Ministry Studios

West Bromwich · West Midlands

A purpose-built BDSM and fetish venue of about 3,500 sq ft in West Bromwich, run by members of the UK fetish scene. It hosts members-only club events and is also available for private hire, workshops and photo or video shoots. Membership is open to adults over 18, with no gendered pricing.

Our Place 4 Fun

London · London

Our Place 4 Fun is a members-only swingers club in the N22 area of north London, near Alexandra Palace. The club only gives out its full location after you register. It holds regular parties on Tuesday, Friday and Saturday nights. It doesn't sell alcohol, so guests bring their own, and there is a soft-drinks bar.

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Pandora Swingers Club

Leeds · Yorkshire

Members-only adult play club in Armley, about a mile from Leeds city centre, set beside a car wash with its own floodlit car park. A ground-floor lounge and bar lead to playrooms on the first and second floors; the second floor is couples-only. Day and evening sessions run through the week, along with themed nights including fetish and LGBTQ+ events.

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Paradise Blackpool

Blackpool · North West

Adults-only hotel and lifestyle venue in Blackpool's South Shore area that combines overnight accommodation with a bar, themed playrooms and occasional event weekends. It is aimed at couples and selected single guests, with consent-focused house rules.

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Partners Swingers Club

Bury · North West

Adults-only swingers club in Bury, Greater Manchester, with a discreet entrance off Whitelegge Street. It opens Thursday to Sunday with themed nights, and has a wet area with jacuzzi, plunge pool and sauna alongside private and group play spaces.

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Penthouse Playrooms

Dunstable · East of England

Penthouse Playrooms is a 21+ private members' swingers and fetish club in Dunstable town centre. The upstairs venue is entered through a pink door with a purple 'PP' sign, behind the Tesco petrol station on High Street North. It runs regular club nights, midweek social evenings and Sunday afternoon events.

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Pleasures in Kent

Wateringbury · South East

Pleasures in Kent is an adult lifestyle club in a detached countryside house in Wateringbury, near Maidstone, running since 2005. It is open on Friday and Saturday nights and holds themed events throughout the year. It doesn't sell alcohol, but staff will store and serve drinks that guests bring with them.

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Purple Mamba Club

Nottingham · East Midlands

A smaller, couples-focused private members' lifestyle club in West Bridgford, near Trent Bridge in Nottingham. It has a members' bar and a range of themed private rooms, and runs regular club nights as well as kink-themed nights and workshops. Membership applications are made in person with photo ID, and single memberships are limited.

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Quest Swingers Club

Leeds · Yorkshire

Long-running private members' swingers club in Hunslet, just south of Leeds city centre, behind the Kwik Fit on Low Road. It has hosted lifestyle events since 2001 and runs swingers, bisexual, cross-dresser, BDSM/fetish and other themed sessions. The bar sells soft drinks only, and members bring their own alcohol.

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Route69

Weston-super-Mare · South West

Route69 is a small adult lifestyle club in central Weston-super-Mare that describes itself as non-pushy and has operated in the town for around ten years. It has a licensed bar and lounge, three lockable playrooms and a dungeon, and runs regular sessions plus themed nights. All visits must be booked and paid for in advance.

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Secrets for Sharing

Totnes · South West

Secrets for Sharing is a monthly couples-focused lifestyle party held at a private country house near Littlehempston, on the edge of Totnes in South Devon. Guests reserve by phone or email and pay on the night; no membership is required and single men are not admitted. Guests have the option to stay overnight.

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Steamer Quay

Torquay · South West

Steamer Quay is an adult relaxation spa in central Torquay, just off Fleet Walk, that has served the LGBTQ+ community for over 20 years. In recent years it has added Saturday-night events for mixed-sex couples, as well as themed monthly nights and a women's event. The venue is being renovated in stages.

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Steel Cliffe

Sheffield · Yorkshire

Adult lifestyle venue on Attercliffe Road in Sheffield's east end, about five minutes' drive from the city centre. It opened around 2024–2025 and runs a rotating calendar of themed and kink nights rather than fixed weekly sessions. The bar sells soft drinks, tea and coffee, and guests bring their own alcohol.

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Sweet Wednesday

London · London

Sweet Wednesday is a daytime party for trans women, cross-dressers and their male and female admirers. It is held twice a month in the basement club under Central Station, a long-established LGBTQ+ pub near King's Cross. It is aimed at being a discreet, welcoming place for people going out dressed for the first time as well as regulars.

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Swindon Swingers

Swindon · South West

Swindon Swingers is the lifestyle-event brand run from Touch Sauna, a town-centre venue in Swindon that opened in 2011 and is a short walk from the bus and railway stations. It holds mixed swingers events on selected Saturday nights, and Touch Sauna runs male-only and T-girl/admirer daytime sessions during the week. No membership is required. The building is being refurbished in stages while the venue stays open.

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The Attic Experience

Derby · East Midlands

A long-running Derby swingers club, owned by Ron Rothwell, that recently moved to Carrington House on Ascot Drive from previous premises off Osmaston Road. It runs daytime cinema sessions, TV and admirers days, and themed evening parties, and no membership is required. In 2025/26 Derby City Council granted the venue a licence for its on-site cinema.

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The Ecclesia

Glasgow · Scotland

Adults-only social and lifestyle venue in Glasgow city centre, hosting mixed 'Fun For All' nights, kink nights, LGBT and women-only events, themed parties and educational workshops. Events are booked individually in advance. The full address is not published and is sent to confirmed attendees before the event.

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The Hellfire Club

Sunbury-on-Thames · South East

The Hellfire Club is a large, long-established lifestyle and fetish venue on a trading estate in Sunbury-on-Thames, close to Upper Halliford station. It runs a rotating monthly programme of themed parties, including couples-only, fetish/BDSM and newcomer nights. Tickets are mainly sold in advance through Eventbrite.

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The Mirage

Market Rasen · East Midlands

Private members' lifestyle venue at Caenby Corner, about eight miles north of Lincoln, in a former wedding venue with gardens and outdoor hot tubs. It hosts themed club nights with DJs, as well as larger weekend events and festivals. Hotel rooms are available, but only to guests who also hold event tickets.

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The Naughty Pineapple

Leicester · East Midlands

A small, recently refurbished adult lifestyle club near Leicester city centre. It runs monthly themed parties, bi nights and a Thursday session aimed at newcomers. Membership is free with ID, and the club describes itself as LGBTQ+ friendly.

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The New Gatehouse

Kearsley · North West

Inclusive adult lifestyle and events venue in the former White Horse pub in Kearsley, on the edge of Bolton, which opened at this site in early 2026. It runs a weekly mix of mixed, bi, kink, fetish and trans-focused sessions, describes itself as an LGBTQ+ safe space, and is also available for private hire.

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The No3 Club

Chorley · North West

Long-standing, over-21s swingers club in Chorley town centre, close to the railway station and a large public car park. It runs a regular programme of Wednesday daytime sessions, Friday intro nights for newcomers, Saturday swing nights and fortnightly Sunday afternoon parties, with a fully licensed bar.

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The Playgrounds - The Lifestyle Lodge

Burton upon Trent area · East Midlands

The Playgrounds is an events group that has run verified adult lifestyle parties for over 12 years, mainly at The Lifestyle Lodge, a large, secluded private house in South Derbyshire near Burton upon Trent. Events are pre-paid and guest-list only, and the exact address is released only to confirmed guests. The group runs themed parties and dedicated bi/trans 'TABU' nights and describes itself as LGBTQIA+ inclusive.

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The Private Club

Birmingham · West Midlands

A long-established adult club in Aston, about ten minutes from Birmingham city centre, now under new management after a full refurbishment. It hosts swingers nights, fetish nights, TV/CD/trans and bi events, and multi-session party days. The venue is also available for private hire.

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The Vanilla Alternative

Tempsford · East of England

The Vanilla Alternative (VA2) is a private members' lifestyle club with an on-site hotel, beside the A1 at Tempsford in Bedfordshire. It hosts a regular programme of themed day and evening events, plus occasional festival weekends. Membership must be approved and renewed each year.

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Townhouse

Birkenhead · North West

Swingers and fetish club in a converted former pub in Tranmere, Birkenhead, a short trip from Liverpool, opened in 2005 and described by local press as Merseyside's oldest swingers club. It spans four floors and runs a busy calendar of swing, BDSM/kink, newcomer and LGBTQ+ events, operating under the relevant local licences.

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Untamed Nights

Bournemouth · South West

Untamed Nights is an adult lifestyle event organiser founded in 2022 in Bournemouth. It runs socials, themed swing parties and kink events, several of which are held at Canvas, a licensed bar and live-music venue on Poole Hill. Its events stress inclusivity and consent and balance the number of single men against couples and single women.

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V2V Club

Nuneaton · West Midlands

A private members' lifestyle club in central Nuneaton created by the hosts of the Vanilla To Vixen podcast. It runs curated, often hosted, events for adults aged 25 and over in an air-conditioned venue with a licensed bar and coffee lounge. It supports LGBTQ+ and ethical non-monogamy communities.

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Withintemptation

Torquay · South West

Withintemptation is a swingers and fetish club in central Torquay that combines a social bar with play and kink facilities. It holds a sexual entertainment venue licence and a premises licence from Torbay Council. The downstairs areas are wheelchair accessible.

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Xtasia

West Bromwich · West Midlands

A long-established swingers and fetish club complex on West Bromwich High Street that has operated for over two decades. Within one gated site it combines a nightclub, the Flirts bar, a spa and on-site hotel rooms, and it hosts swing and alternative events every week. Membership must be arranged before entry and photo ID is required.

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